A male reader sent this. I feel like knocking his big head but then I'm not judgemental of my readers. But guy you need a few slaps, I won't lie. Read and see if he doesn't deserve a few hot slaps.
I wedded my beautiful, gentle, lovely and charming wife four years ago somewhere in Ikeja. Our marriage is made in heaven because I'm married to the best woman.
A few years down the line, I meet a girl, a young graduate, 25 years and I think I'm in love with her. I'm sure I love her more than my wife. I spend days and even weeks with her. A week with her is like one day and I discuss just about anything with her. Confiding in my girl is easy unlike my dear wife. With her, I can be myself. I even introduced her to smoking of weed and heavy drinking. This makes our sex life explosive. We do just about anything. Every fantasy I can't share with wifey, I share with my girl . Anal sex, threesome etc. Anything doable behind closed doors, we do. I'm addicted to her.
Wifey does not have any idea that I smoke, let alone, smoke weed . My girl and I hire ashawo for hreesome and we pay her off later
She has conceived severally and I've made her abort them all. I've made her believe I would get a divorce and then she would have our babies. I've told her this even though I know it will never happen. I have no intentions to divorce my lovely wife who has given me two beautiful children.
My girl has turned down a lot of suitors because of me. She has her own business and is doing really well. She's doing better than me financially yet she turns down other men because of me.
She now wants marriage by all means. It's so bad that I've borrowed fake aunties to go and appease her and ask for a little more time. These fake aunties tell her she's the one the family wants. These aunties are random women that sell mama put. I pay them to do the job.
Recently, wifey stumbled on our chats and quietly contacted my girl in a very decent manner. She explained to my girl that she was dating a married man and it was wrong. She told her that we had kids and it was wrong to try to ruin someone's marriage. My girl acted all nice and calm but saved wifey's number. I told wifey that she was just a random chic that was making advances at me.
Now, my girl is threatening to call wifey back and let her know about our relationship. She said she hates lies and needs to open up to wifey so she can be forgiven. (Story story)
Another twist to it is that she is asking for a blood bond between us or I bring her in as a second wife that she can handle wifey. (Devil)
I can't do this. I love my wife and this will break her heart. By the way, this my girl is not a marriage material at all, she can't even cook or be nice to inlaws. But I rock her as a girlfriend for Nigeria and Africa.
She now calls me at very ungodly hours just to disturb wifey and I. I'm scared she's lost it and may do something really nasty.
I'm well respected in the church. I'm a role model to younger men and it will shock wifey to learn of my dual life style. I'm a normal hubby and daddy at home but a gangster boyfriend outside.
How do I get out of this? I don't want to loose my family
I wedded my beautiful, gentle, lovely and charming wife four years ago somewhere in Ikeja. Our marriage is made in heaven because I'm married to the best woman.
A few years down the line, I meet a girl, a young graduate, 25 years and I think I'm in love with her. I'm sure I love her more than my wife. I spend days and even weeks with her. A week with her is like one day and I discuss just about anything with her. Confiding in my girl is easy unlike my dear wife. With her, I can be myself. I even introduced her to smoking of weed and heavy drinking. This makes our sex life explosive. We do just about anything. Every fantasy I can't share with wifey, I share with my girl . Anal sex, threesome etc. Anything doable behind closed doors, we do. I'm addicted to her.
Wifey does not have any idea that I smoke, let alone, smoke weed . My girl and I hire ashawo for hreesome and we pay her off later
She has conceived severally and I've made her abort them all. I've made her believe I would get a divorce and then she would have our babies. I've told her this even though I know it will never happen. I have no intentions to divorce my lovely wife who has given me two beautiful children.
My girl has turned down a lot of suitors because of me. She has her own business and is doing really well. She's doing better than me financially yet she turns down other men because of me.
She now wants marriage by all means. It's so bad that I've borrowed fake aunties to go and appease her and ask for a little more time. These fake aunties tell her she's the one the family wants. These aunties are random women that sell mama put. I pay them to do the job.
Recently, wifey stumbled on our chats and quietly contacted my girl in a very decent manner. She explained to my girl that she was dating a married man and it was wrong. She told her that we had kids and it was wrong to try to ruin someone's marriage. My girl acted all nice and calm but saved wifey's number. I told wifey that she was just a random chic that was making advances at me.
Now, my girl is threatening to call wifey back and let her know about our relationship. She said she hates lies and needs to open up to wifey so she can be forgiven. (Story story)
Another twist to it is that she is asking for a blood bond between us or I bring her in as a second wife that she can handle wifey. (Devil)
I can't do this. I love my wife and this will break her heart. By the way, this my girl is not a marriage material at all, she can't even cook or be nice to inlaws. But I rock her as a girlfriend for Nigeria and Africa.
She now calls me at very ungodly hours just to disturb wifey and I. I'm scared she's lost it and may do something really nasty.
I'm well respected in the church. I'm a role model to younger men and it will shock wifey to learn of my dual life style. I'm a normal hubby and daddy at home but a gangster boyfriend outside.
How do I get out of this? I don't want to loose my family
Mr lover man, please call your wife and tell her what you have been up to. There's already a sea of resentment and a gathering storm
ReplyDeleteAkuko na egwu Mike Ejeagha! He can't eat his cake and have it. Gangster be forming holy! Mtchew... He should just start writing his will biko. My thoughts are with the wife and children though... 😃
ReplyDeleteA man who fetched ant infested fire wood invited lizards to a meeting. First your dual lifestyle mocked God so go for confession. Second your unfaithfulness you must let your wife know and be ready yo turn a new leaf. Third your lying tongue must be put to check tell your girlfriend the truth and ask her to forgive you. If she is in a better mood she may forgive you for you have ruined her.lastly pick whatever is left of your live and move on.
ReplyDeleteMr. Lover man obviously needs deliverance to rid him of his dual personality.
ReplyDeleteIf he is sincerely sorry for his deeds, let him seek proper counseling, & with someone (truly) respectable), he should open up to the wife, who hopefully will forgive him & help monitor his progress during/after the counseling.
Ha, how do people let themselves go off the deep end so deep and when they start to drown, they start to look for help. Who helps those their lies and dual personality may be capable of destroying. Abeg Amaka give am slap jare.
ReplyDeleteWondering his people get so deep in trouble right? Truth is at the beginning bthey thinkvthey can handle it. Then the fun is magical and they get lost in it.
DeleteNot fair to both women. Such a double standard...Why do women accept such behaviors?
ReplyDeleteThis chap is not sorry for his actions. He should still be in school really, "rocking" weed with boys because he is still living sheer unreality. He thinks he can eat his cake and have it? The day of recompense draws nigh! Both women are waiting for the right time to unleash their wrath. How do you advise an unrepentant man? Bear ya cross
ReplyDeleteWhy did his wife call the girl rather than her husband? She should have the conversation with her husband and not with this girlfriend she doesn't know.
ReplyDeleteDude wants to eat his cake and have it, and with two when sho don't seem to want him to own up to being a prick, he might just get away with it
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ReplyDeleteSmh...the real tragedy is that women put up with this nonsense. We are infact "socialized" to accept it and instructed to bend over backwards to accommodate it...sigh. Truth is, the crap will definitely hit the fan on this one. But as with many cases like this, his wife will forgive him and he would have had his cake and eaten it too. What's more, sooner or later, he'll indulge again if the opportunity presents...and the beat goes on...it's a crying shame
ReplyDeleteHe who gathers firewood full of ants will be visited by ants. Lol
ReplyDeleteMr man if you don't repent from your evil life style now that you still live,just know that you have built your self a duplex in Hell!you are a big shame.if only you had shared your sexual likes with your wife instead of the un reasonable pretence and as a church goer subdue the devilish sexual desires through prayers.you are just a loose weak man!go for deliverance. And as for the lady,she is nothing but a she goat,her time in school was a waste !she needs deliverance as well because I sense DAFT DEMONS uselessing her life
ReplyDeleteMr man if you don't repent from your evil life style now that you still live,just know that you have built your self a duplex in Hell!you are a big shame.if only you had shared your sexual likes with your wife instead of the un reasonable pretence and as a church goer subdue the devilish sexual desires through prayers.you are just a loose weak man!go for deliverance. And as for the lady,she is nothing but a she goat,her time in school was a waste !she needs deliverance as well because I sense DAFT DEMONS uselessing her life
ReplyDeleteMa please permit me to knock his big head.
ReplyDeleteSir am not sure you love your wife, if you love her you won't be doing this to her.
You need serious deliverance I swear jare! !! Habaa! What is this, you have two face and still have the gods to kill God's creature abi.
You better tell your wife and beg God for forgiveness.
For that your girl serious karma awaits her, what God has joined together let no man put as asunder.
And now he's ruined the young girl's life. What a twat!
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