Praying Side Chic 2

So the Praying Side Chic story is still making the rounds. I was contacted by a lady whose sister is a Praying Side Chic.  I've counselled both sisters but asked that they let me share the story so that my friends can also give their advice. They will both read all the comments and possibly find the help they need. Here's her story:  "My sister is a victim here, she's separated from her husband. This man came in and changed her story, my worry here is that he doesn't allow her to do anything.. He takes care of her and her kids. I tried to come in but he told her to cut me off.. She really loves him so much that whenever he cheats on her she will faint and might land in the hospital. She built up his spiritual life.. Takes him to church..  Buys things for his family. His wife some times calls her when she needs her help or opinion on things. She respects his wife and has no desire to be a second wife or to move into his home. She makes him go home to her when he quarrels with his wife and comes to the home he built for her to take solace. Her own husband is a very lazy man who abandoned his responsibilities and left her to take care of their children all by herself. So my sister herself was hard working before the man came into her life and made it easier for her. He took off her every responsibility that she had. She was with me when someone told me about this post.  I told her but she said its for single side chics. She wants to opt out but it's difficult for her." Can I get your opinion please?

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  2. Well I strongly think the other woman should mind her lane and stop encouraging the man to come to her whenever there's a problem with his wife

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  3. Well I strongly think the other woman should mind her lane and stop encouraging the man to come to her whenever there's a problem with his wife

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  4. There is nothing good about this relationship, this lady must deal with the soul tie she has with this her man friend. This will not end well oooo. She has to decide to LIVE. You cannot live on another man. She is robbing herself of the opportunity to start again quickly ,to LIVE her own life.

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  5. The so called side chic should give her life to Christ... there is nothing legal or moral about being a side chic

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  6. The so called side chic should give her life to Christ... there is nothing legal or moral about being a side chic

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  7. Oh wow...I feel sorry for the side chic she's allowing life to toss her about. She needs to deliver herself and gain her self worth and confidence back. She is indeed a victim, she needs to brazen up, the fairy tale will come to an end some day and she will be left with nothing.

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  8. Congratulations on your blog.i am really excited for u and I trust that you will keep us all entertained and educated as well.kudos darling 👌

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  9. These are very serious problems in marriage, which may not be solved by just making unguarded comments or by condemning anyone. These are brothers and sisters hurting in marriage. Who knows exactly where it all went wrong for them. Lets pray for such couples please. But I suggest this woman whose own husband is said to be lazy and the man who is marrying both her wife and the woman to seek out either marriage counsellors, psychologists or priests who can be of assistance to them, instead of continuing to live with these deviations

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