My name is Amaka Nwosisi, this is an attempt to do something I love to do, write, true stories. Somehow, people confide in me, tell me their stories and permit me to publish so they can hear other people's view concerning their situations. I'm passionate about strange and funny real life issues. People who follow me on facebook know that I am obsessed with NEPA! However, my first post as a blogger is not about NEPA but about a certain kind of woman. Please note that every story you read on my blog is true life, just edited a lil bit for privacy sake.
So I was with a single lady friend of mine. She was on the phone with someone and their conversation was so serious, they discussed a particular business both were involved in and US politics and she gave her advice and opinion respectively. She ended the conversation by saying "love you too baby" hmm, I was so happy that we would be attending a wedding soon. I quickly asked when she got off the phone why she didn't tell me that she was in a serious relationship. She said well, it was serious but wouldn't lead to marriage and so no need telling me. Why? I asked and she said he was happily married. Eh yah! So why bother with him. "We love each other, Amaka, you won't understand" Okay, please make me understand. She went on to explain, he treats me well, respects me, seeks my opinion on everything down to gifts for his wife and kids, he takes really good care of me. He buys everything for me down to make up and pays my bills. I'm faithful to him, I love him in return and I love everything about him including his wife and kids. I pray for him everyday and I've taught him to pray more. His spiritual life is better now, (yeah right). His wife is lucky he has someone like me cos she(the wife) doesn't have energy to pray. So I stand in the gap for the whole family. Hmm, we now have the Praying Side Chic. So wives, your wishes now should be for a praying side chic if hubby decides to have one. I left her speechless cos I believe everything she said. A praying side chic. Hoihoihoihoi I laugh in Lokpanta dialect.
(P:S Have you read your bible today? Before you spend a whole day on social media, create some time for God)
Glad to read your blog! You are an amazing writer. Looking forward to visiting your blog all the time. Well done. Only God can help marriages these days! There are many single girls and very few eligible men. It's almost like a survival of the fittest. God will protect our husbands oh
ReplyDeleteHmmm.It will cause more harm than good
ReplyDeletePraying sidechick.why not pray for your own.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to read from yu here.I can relate this story to someone but all the I can say is "what God has joined together let no praying side chic put asunder"
ReplyDeleteWeldon dear....all d best
ReplyDeleteWeldon dear....all d best
ReplyDeleteAmaks! Wow! Your story telling and writing is on point. Kudos to you!
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The praying side chic is just fooling herself, is she using the bible to back up her prayers? Did the bible say anyone should be a side chic? Fire will burn her sooner than she expects. And for her information, the man is just playing along.the man knows she's desperate. These days men are wise.none of them want to have two wives except for those wayward ones
ReplyDeleteWow! It's so unfortunate when we invest our time and emotions into a clearly fruitless journey. I hope she stands in the gap for herself and ask God to forgive and nudge her towards her own place of peace. It's difficult but it's something that has to be done. Well done Amaka. Very well written. Lovely user interface as well
ReplyDeleteWow! It's so unfortunate when we invest our time and emotions into a clearly fruitless journey. I hope she stands in the gap for herself and ask God to forgive and nudge her towards her own place of peace. It's difficult but it's something that has to be done. Well done Amaka. Very well written. Lovely user interface as well
ReplyDeleteLol Nice!!!
ReplyDeleteLol Nice!!!
ReplyDeleteWow Amaka it was a good read. Well done
ReplyDeleteWow Amaka it was a good read. Well done
ReplyDeleteSometimes I wonder if we read the same Bible o. These people are so blind that they explain away their wrongdoing so practically you sef will almost believe they are right and make excuses for them. I will advice though that she should realise she is being used..selah, The husband is enjoying the best of both worlds. She should expend her energy prsying for her own family instead . Meanwhile marriages are being tested on a second by second basis.... keeping your marriage is only by God's grace.
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ReplyDeleteI died at "the wife doesn't have energy to pray. So I stand in the gap for the whole family". Sigh, such delusions...Anyways, with all that interceeding, at some point, the "Holy Spirit" will "minister" to her to "give herself brain" (as my Waffi Peeps will say) and do the right thing. Kudos Max!
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