Doing it right

My submissions on all topics are just my opinions. What works for me may not work for you. I share my experiences and offer some explanations that have worked or still working for me. On the issue of porn, it doesn’t work for me anymore. I have discovered that I equally possess such talents. hehehe. A few people contacted me to say thanks on the mirror strategy I shared. Lol. Please if it helped you; pay me for the free consultation.  

Another issue I have come across that causes problems between some couples is how to have sex the right way. Hmmm, please show me where it is written in the bible that it should be done in a particular way. I always ask the woman, why do you think some guys patronise sex workers or keep other women? They usually act like they don’t know why. For some men, it has become a way of life, but something got them hooked, and so I answer the question, they want to go all the way, they don’t want excuses, “I am on..” “I don’t like it that way” “no, don’t touch me there” It starts to look like a quarrel. While I acknowledge that both parties should be satisfied, I am on the side of the men here. They need it like food and their satisfaction is more important.

What is my point? Women please feed your husbands sex and stop the prescription, like its malaria medicine – once daily/once in two days. Feed him the right food too. Let him have a variety and please change your style. Some women have said, he won’t go down on me and for that I won’t go down on him. The first thing that comes to my mind is if he doesn’t do it then don’t do it, however, I won’t say that. Just give him that pleasure and you will be surprised that one day he will reciprocate your kind gesture. Lol. But do you even blame some men who will never go down there? The proximity of the Vjayjay to the Anaynay is too close. Chances are that there could be an accident. I don’t want to imagine what will happen afterwards, blows and slaps from all over. Lol.

On the issue of talking dirty, someone said to me that her husband says all sorts and her thoughts are, “just shut the hell up” hahaha. The poor man is there feeling like a stud and yet very clueless. 10 out of 10 men say they enjoy the dirty talks. ( Amaka’s survey). So ladies get to work, start talking. Better still go and learn your language/dialect as some men have also admitted that they love to hear the dirty talk in other languages and not English. My problem with a foreign language is how to know that the speaking party is not insulting you. I’m a believer in talking though and that’s all I can reveal.

How about the animal like noises, a girl in a certain university then was notorious for the way she attracted attention to her room whenever she was at it. Neighbours practically knocked on her door to ask her to keep it low. i hear some men love this, but I call it madness.  It's a bit too much but lying down there like a log of wood is even worse. Move your body my friend and express yourself. Let him know that he is not doing badly at all. (the men always need reassurance) And for the men, please it is not a competition; one good round is enough, except we ask for more. Nothing to prove, you are still the man

Women and faking orgasm, almost every woman has done this; times without number. You keep going at it till you discover yourself. (but how do you discover yourself with just the missionary style?) Do it for his sake, you don’t want a sulking man or one with a bruised ego. Somehow they can sense the fake one so they ask if you …. And you say yes. They believe because it’s safer that way. Hehehe

Finally, find what works for both of you, make magic of your union and be happy!