Three months after Mikie left me
shattered, I met Emmanuel in an office where I had gone for an interview, he
offered me a ride and I impulsively accepted. He was a much older guy and by his
second visit to my house, he made his intention to marry me known to my
parents. He proposed to me in my home in the presence of my parents and I accepted
without any hesitation. Deep down I still yearned for Mikie, but I hoped that
this was the best way to move on; I also felt that it was a revenge on Mikie
for what he did to me. By the way, I had grown very fond of Emmanuel, he was
also extremely good looking and he loved me passionately.
My first night with Emmanuel was
on our wedding day, eight months after we met, Emmy like I call him is an
epitome of a husband, he is nearly perfect in everything, he loves me
unconditionally and has extended same love to my family. His own family is
exceptionally nice to me. Emmy treats me like his baby yet gives me my due
respect. Although he is nowhere close to being as good as Mikie in bed, he
still does his best to satisfy me, on some days it is really good and other
days it is just okay. Our marriage is a really good one only that Emmy and I are
still waiting on God for a child.
I told Emmy everything that
happened between Mikie and I and he did the much he could to heal my wound.
Emmy tried his best to make me forget about my past and he did a good job of
it.
I had forgotten all about Mikie
and his family until a month ago when I got a call and the caller turned out to
be Mikie, it was a pleasant surprise I must say and shockingly, I forgot all
the pains that he caused me. We talked and laughed so much, he said he missed
me and I told him that I missed him too. Mikie said he would be back in a few
weeks and would love to see me, as soon as he said that, my whole body
trembled and I immediately knew that it would be a wrong move to see Mikie
again.
He called me a few more times and
each time he did I felt something in my tummy, no doubt, Mikie still has a hold
on me but I thought I got over him. I told
my mum and she made me swear never to see him or even take his calls again. I
only ignored his calls twice and felt really bad afterwards.
My husband Emmy is a very good
man and he loves me deeply, he never even talks about the fact that it has been
over two years and we are yet to have a child. When I get moody over the delay
in having a child, he assures me that he married me to be his companion and the
kids would only be an added bonus. It
will kill him if he learns that I have been speaking to Mikie.
Mikie is in town now, he calls me
every day, he has made his intention known, and he says he wants me back. I told
him that I will never leave Emmy, and he is now asking for just one last love
making with me. Hearing him say it makes me want him all the more. The truth is
that I want Mikie even more than he wants me. I get so turned on whenever I hear
his voice. This is so wrong but I feel so helpless, Mikie even says that I am
childless because I am not compatible with Emmy, he brags that he will get me
pregnant like a flash. ( Na so!) I will never leave my Emmanuel, never! I just
feel I need to be with Mikie this one last time and maybe finally get a closure
on him. I am losing my mind, so this is the real meaning of Okafor’s law? God
please help your daughter.
As usual, fictious names have been used for privacy reasons
Biko nnem gbaba oso without looking back, run and never look back. Don't even give this evil a chance. It's not easy because the fight between emotion and reason is a very difficult one and the more you dwell on it, the more you will want it. Please if you commit you will get hooked and it will continue. Don't let five or ten minutes pleasure ruin that which you have built for two years. Consider the effect it WI have on your husband if he finds out and the two families by extension. "resist the devil and it shall flee so says the holy book". I know this scenario very well and believe me it takes the grace of God and deliberate will power to overcome. Good luck!
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DeletePlease block his number and delete it immediately without thinking. This will not end well at all, it never does
ReplyDeleteOkafor's law has never helped anyone. It will only put you in deep problems. But for friends with benefits, it works very well.
ReplyDeleteGist! It is best to leave the things of the past to remain in the past. If her husband has not being loving like she has described then I can understand. Trust me, I know about Okafor's law. God help her to make the right decision.
ReplyDeleteEnuff said! Tempting but definitely not worth loosing what you have girl!
ReplyDeleteNne, ewo! Hmm! you better change your number and face your husband....it will not end well if you keep listening to that serpent called Mikie!
ReplyDeleteThat is why elderly people say marriage before sex, she and mike still share something in common, that makes her want to meet mike, if she eventually meet him she wont be forced she will ask for sex which will destroy her marriage.
ReplyDeleteIf ur eye causes u to sin pluck it out , this devil mikie or milk , will continue to milk and destroy your life forever, if he still wants to sleep with you , a married woman hmmmmmm imagine what he will do to u after sleeping with you , that's when he will tell you the reason why he left u in the first place , cause he knows ur cheap and can never be trusted , then black mailing starts . God blessed u with a good man , don't loss him . Send proverb 5 to mikie to read . You repent and get close to Jesus.
ReplyDeleteThank God that you have not gone just go and remain with your emma.
ReplyDeletePls nne, don't be surprise he already has someone else. Biko go home
The last part of the story sound like the famous conversation between Eve and the serpent. I hope she pull through this trying moment and leave for Christ. For now she is still in the flesh. The battle is not carnal. May God help her. Amen
ReplyDeletemy dear am sure you a word is enough for the wise!Resist the devil Mikie and he will flee from you. The same Mikie told you before he left you to move on and now you have and married to a God-sent husband, same Mikie is back from the blues wanting you back again knowing that you are happily married. My dear it is also time you tell your Mikie to wake up from his dreamworld to face realities and MOVE ON too cos you have.
ReplyDeleteA wise woman builds her home while the foolish one tears it down with her own very hands. No matter what you think you still feel for your Mikie, he is in your past. Emmy is your future now so do not allow a 5mins flesh to flesh pleasure destroy the happiness you have built with Emmy.
Na wao...how can someone deny such yearnings & still live with herself? It's easy to say block his number looking in from the outside but again as adults we're programmed to make the tough decisions. Good luck to her
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