A Life time of Sex

This reader was kind enough to tell me her story after she read my last post, Virgin ko.

Katherine and Randy dated for five years before they got married and in those five years, they had sex over a zillion times according to Katherine. It happened anywhere, anytime and anyhow, there were no limitations, she gave it to Randy very freely; in a nutshell, sex was a big part of their relationship.

Katherine decided to give me a background of their relationship before marriage, they both lived in the same city even though Randy’s job took him round the country, but they always made up for the times that they were not together. Katherine had an accommodation in the school but she lived with Randy for the five years that she was in the University studying law.

They had sex everyday that they spent together and nothing would stop them from the act not even Katherine’s monthly flow, (hmm…) or a big fight between them, in fact every fight was settled with several rounds of hot sex. They did it everywhere, in the car, in restaurant restrooms, swimming pool and once they had a quickie in Randy’s friend’s office. It was a private office, Randy’s friend who they visited excused himself for a short meeting with his staff, it was a Friday and he had the rest of the evening to spend with Katherine and Randy,

Katherine had just pulled up her pants when the door opened and Randy’s friend walked in, one look at them and he could tell that they had been up to something. Most of Randy’s friends thought Katherine was the coolest girlfriend; she did not hide the fact that she could not get enough of Randy as she often expressed her affection towards him publicly.

They would leave friends in parties, find a suitable spot, usually behind parked cars and would get down to business. They were once caught by a security man while at it in their car; the car was parked on a lonely street close to the night club where they had been. Katherine and Randy had sex like it was going out of fashion and as expected; four abortions were carried out in the course.

They got married before Katherine went to the law school and they had three children in quick succession. Life was really good; Randy was at the peak of his career while Katherine practised law in a very good law firm. They lacked nothing and together raised very beautiful children.

They have been married for several years now, they still love each other but something is missing in their marriage; Katherine says she no longer wants to have sex, how can?! She feels terrible about this, but she cannot help herself; she did not let her husband touch her for over fifteen months, she cringed anytime he tried to touch her especially if he kissed her and she was not in the least bothered that he could get from someone else what she could no longer  give him. This situation keeps both her and her husband very unhappy.

She secretly wishes that her husband would be like her and not want to have sex with her anymore; she says that she can live with it. But then, he could just be pretending to want his wife so much. Lol.

She has tried everything possible to bring the spark back into her love life to no avail; she has watched porn, read all sorts of books and even consulted a therapist.

Recently she started praying about it and she has started to find the answers, she is convinced that she had enough sex to last her a lifetime even before she got married and so she is facing the repercussion of engaging in premarital sex.

Katherine is still facing this dilemma although she keeps trying to get better, she recently let her husband have his way but she closed her eyes all through and just laid there like a log of wood. No she did not enjoy it one bit.

Her advice to young girls is to stay away from premarital sex so that they do not find themselves in a similar predicament later in life.

You have a lifetime of sex with your husband/wife before you why waste the opportunity?

(Katherine and Randy are not their real names)