I guess I am stuck now, I can’t even just decide not to write for a day because according to one of Lilea’s Blog readers who reached out to me privately, “It is no longer about you, we wait eagerly every day for your post” She even said that it was rude to miss a day without an apology. Hmm, I don enter one chance. So to all those who feel the same way, I apologise, please forgive me, abeg!
Why did I miss out one day, a very good friend that I hadn’t seen in over fifteen years visited Nigeria and a group of us decided to go out that night, and it was so worth it. I felt young again and the night reminded me that we only get as old as we want to.
The body works with what the mind presents to it and if the mind tells the body that it is sixteen, the body accepts and automatically starts to feel and act sixteen. So it doesn’t really matter how old one is, if you think and feel eighty, the mind will send the same message to the body and they both welcome you to the eighties club.
Well, it was a beautiful evening with Ulo, Hili, Mary and Ruru and our spouses. I am still growing my liver and when it comes of age, I will share the videos of the night. *wink*
Today, I want to discuss what two people said to me, the sentences are related, one said that flirting is good for everyone and the other person said that all women flirt.
In truth, flirting feels so good, it makes you come alive, the thought of being admired brings out all the sexiness in someone, it gives one’s life a spark and some kind of zest. It makes you want to wake up, dress up and show up every day. If your flirt partner is in the office, office becomes your favourite place in the world.
And if your flirt partner is in the church, hmm, for the woman, she may spend over an hour dressing up or making up, she would bring out clothes to choose from like three days before and will keep eliminating till she is down to her final choice to wear to church. Of course everything said in church would go with the wind.
Please don’t ask me how I know because I am not speaking from experience, I just know these things, lol. An observant husband or wife can easily tell when the other party is treading the dangerous soils of flirting.
Flirting gives one a bounce, (you are the bounce in my walk lol.) If one is observant, it is easy to tell when someone is flirting.
Flirting makes one hopeful and the anticipation of the end result of flirting is even sweeter than the actual act that is why most flirting end without actually committing the anticipated act.
Flirting is so sweet and juicy and exciting all at once that when you find yourself in it, you may let your guard down and do the unthinkable, the question is, “Why does flirting feel so good?” My answer is simple, it feels so good simply because it is sinful, sin is usually very interesting until one gets caught.
I don’t agree with the person who says that all women flirt because I do not flirt, hehehehehe!
Recently, a friend of mine was at a close friend’s party, she had attended alone because her husband had a busy day and wanted to rest. While she was at the party and really enjoying herself, who came storming into the venue like he was looking for a stubborn child who ran away from home? Her husband; apparently he couldn’t sleep like he planned, he spent the better part of his time alone thinking of what his wife could possibly be doing at the party and when he couldn’t wrap his head around it, he got into his car in the dead of the night and drove all the way to another part of town to rescue his wife.
Of course my friend was pissed at his lack of trust for her and when she asked why he had to come all the way to get her like she was a baby, he started screaming at her that she was a bloody flirt “I know that you love to flirt with guys so I have come to take you home”.
Maybe some men know their wives too well, lol. I applaud this guy for coming to get his wife, he called a spade a spade and really that is how to help someone deal with his/her own weakness.
Flirting? We must revisit this topic; because there is really more to it
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Why did I miss out one day, a very good friend that I hadn’t seen in over fifteen years visited Nigeria and a group of us decided to go out that night, and it was so worth it. I felt young again and the night reminded me that we only get as old as we want to.
The body works with what the mind presents to it and if the mind tells the body that it is sixteen, the body accepts and automatically starts to feel and act sixteen. So it doesn’t really matter how old one is, if you think and feel eighty, the mind will send the same message to the body and they both welcome you to the eighties club.
Well, it was a beautiful evening with Ulo, Hili, Mary and Ruru and our spouses. I am still growing my liver and when it comes of age, I will share the videos of the night. *wink*
Today, I want to discuss what two people said to me, the sentences are related, one said that flirting is good for everyone and the other person said that all women flirt.
In truth, flirting feels so good, it makes you come alive, the thought of being admired brings out all the sexiness in someone, it gives one’s life a spark and some kind of zest. It makes you want to wake up, dress up and show up every day. If your flirt partner is in the office, office becomes your favourite place in the world.
And if your flirt partner is in the church, hmm, for the woman, she may spend over an hour dressing up or making up, she would bring out clothes to choose from like three days before and will keep eliminating till she is down to her final choice to wear to church. Of course everything said in church would go with the wind.
Please don’t ask me how I know because I am not speaking from experience, I just know these things, lol. An observant husband or wife can easily tell when the other party is treading the dangerous soils of flirting.
Flirting gives one a bounce, (you are the bounce in my walk lol.) If one is observant, it is easy to tell when someone is flirting.
Flirting makes one hopeful and the anticipation of the end result of flirting is even sweeter than the actual act that is why most flirting end without actually committing the anticipated act.
Flirting is so sweet and juicy and exciting all at once that when you find yourself in it, you may let your guard down and do the unthinkable, the question is, “Why does flirting feel so good?” My answer is simple, it feels so good simply because it is sinful, sin is usually very interesting until one gets caught.
I don’t agree with the person who says that all women flirt because I do not flirt, hehehehehe!
Recently, a friend of mine was at a close friend’s party, she had attended alone because her husband had a busy day and wanted to rest. While she was at the party and really enjoying herself, who came storming into the venue like he was looking for a stubborn child who ran away from home? Her husband; apparently he couldn’t sleep like he planned, he spent the better part of his time alone thinking of what his wife could possibly be doing at the party and when he couldn’t wrap his head around it, he got into his car in the dead of the night and drove all the way to another part of town to rescue his wife.
Of course my friend was pissed at his lack of trust for her and when she asked why he had to come all the way to get her like she was a baby, he started screaming at her that she was a bloody flirt “I know that you love to flirt with guys so I have come to take you home”.
Maybe some men know their wives too well, lol. I applaud this guy for coming to get his wife, he called a spade a spade and really that is how to help someone deal with his/her own weakness.
Flirting? We must revisit this topic; because there is really more to it
NB: father's day gift loading
90% of women 🚺 flirt. Pls revisit the topic and you will discover the truth. Thanks.
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ReplyDeleteSo my question is; what percentage of men flirt? Bcos if 90% of women flirt, it sure ain't no tree dey r flirting wt. Lol
ReplyDeleteIf possible I'ld need d estimate....Lol
For singles flirting is a way of attracting the opposite sex. But for married couples... no chance.
ReplyDeleteI hail my man for rushing to rescue his property on auction.lolz
She's his wife, so no one knows her more than he does. The man doesn't want stories! I no blame am oo! It doesn't take long b4 it starts getting hard.
ReplyDeleteNice one. I love flirting but with Christian mind��
ReplyDeleteHehehehe can't wait for the continuation
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