“When a man loves a woman, can’t get his mind on nothing else, he’d trade the world for the good thing he’s found, if she’s bad he can’t see it, she can’t do no wrong, turn his back on his best friend if he puts her down”.
Calvin Lewis and Andrew Wright who wrote the lyrics to the song sure knew what they were talking about when they wrote those lines; a man in love sometimes acts like he’s been controlled by voodoo. He will do the most bizarre things and leaves one wondering if all is well.
How do you begin to address the case of a man who slaps his own mother for scolding his fiancée? Such a man should be banished from his community.
Another man severed all ties with his family; his reason is that his family never wanted him to marry this particular woman and so he does not trust that they will be nice to her. Hmm…rubbish!
Personally, I witnessed a girl’s bad behaviour towards her mother in law to be, she was simply rude to the woman and when she was cautioned, she stormed out of the place and went to report to her boyfriend all what had transpired boyfriend oh not even husband). The boyfriend barged into the area where the confrontation had happened and without asking for clarification, he began to shout at his poor mother; it was a sorry sight and I silently prayed that his mother would place a curse on both of them.
Any woman who watches her man behave badly all because of her and does nothing about it lacks proper home training, but the truth though is that some women feel a sense of entitlement when their men act stupidly because of them.
I love it when a man expresses his love for a woman openly and is not ashamed to show that the woman means a lot to him, but a man should love with his brains intact and same goes to the woman who is in love.
I teach my boys how to be the best men that they can be, to be polite and very courteous towards everyone and not just the women.
Yes, I want them to treat women nicely, to learn to pull the chair out for a woman to sit first, hold the door of the car for her to get in, to hug tightly, help a woman stand from her seat, pay compliments and spend generously but I do not want them to be women wrappers.
We know what women do to the wrapper, they use and use the wrapper till it is worn out and begins to tear; that is exactly what some women end up doing to their men, use them till they become useless.
Next time someone calls you a woman wrapper please warn that person never to call you that again, it can never be good and if you as a woman treat your husband like a wrapper, please stop!
“It’s so good loving somebody when somebody loves you back”, this is one other song that makes sense, when a woman watches her spouse behave badly and does nothing, personally, I do not think that such a woman loves her man. A man who loves his spouse and is willing to even kill for her sake should please ask himself if the woman is equally willing to do same for him.
Some men no longer speak to their friends because their wives say so, if you are in this category, please bow your head and receive your deliverance. Have you ever thought of the reason or reasons why your dear wife does not want you to speak to anyone? it could be that your friend knows something about her that you do not know.
I have seen men beat up their siblings because of their wives and it leaves me thinking of what a woman would say to her husband to make her fight his own brothers and sisters. Maybe I am not a real woman because I still cannot think of anything to say to hubby that will make him quarrel or fight with his siblings. Every woman has the gift of the “Bottom power” but mine has failed me a couple of times for obvious reasons, there is no bottom to hold the power, dassol!
A note to the women: any time you put your spouse in an awkward position with other people who also love him please think of your son, born or unborn and imagine a woman coming between the two of you or him and his other siblings.
Please let your husband be the man that God created him to be, and your main duty is to bring out the best in him. (There is a clause here) the man must be nice and very good natured.
Calvin Lewis and Andrew Wright who wrote the lyrics to the song sure knew what they were talking about when they wrote those lines; a man in love sometimes acts like he’s been controlled by voodoo. He will do the most bizarre things and leaves one wondering if all is well.
How do you begin to address the case of a man who slaps his own mother for scolding his fiancée? Such a man should be banished from his community.
Another man severed all ties with his family; his reason is that his family never wanted him to marry this particular woman and so he does not trust that they will be nice to her. Hmm…rubbish!
Personally, I witnessed a girl’s bad behaviour towards her mother in law to be, she was simply rude to the woman and when she was cautioned, she stormed out of the place and went to report to her boyfriend all what had transpired boyfriend oh not even husband). The boyfriend barged into the area where the confrontation had happened and without asking for clarification, he began to shout at his poor mother; it was a sorry sight and I silently prayed that his mother would place a curse on both of them.
Any woman who watches her man behave badly all because of her and does nothing about it lacks proper home training, but the truth though is that some women feel a sense of entitlement when their men act stupidly because of them.
I love it when a man expresses his love for a woman openly and is not ashamed to show that the woman means a lot to him, but a man should love with his brains intact and same goes to the woman who is in love.
I teach my boys how to be the best men that they can be, to be polite and very courteous towards everyone and not just the women.
Yes, I want them to treat women nicely, to learn to pull the chair out for a woman to sit first, hold the door of the car for her to get in, to hug tightly, help a woman stand from her seat, pay compliments and spend generously but I do not want them to be women wrappers.
We know what women do to the wrapper, they use and use the wrapper till it is worn out and begins to tear; that is exactly what some women end up doing to their men, use them till they become useless.
Next time someone calls you a woman wrapper please warn that person never to call you that again, it can never be good and if you as a woman treat your husband like a wrapper, please stop!
“It’s so good loving somebody when somebody loves you back”, this is one other song that makes sense, when a woman watches her spouse behave badly and does nothing, personally, I do not think that such a woman loves her man. A man who loves his spouse and is willing to even kill for her sake should please ask himself if the woman is equally willing to do same for him.
Some men no longer speak to their friends because their wives say so, if you are in this category, please bow your head and receive your deliverance. Have you ever thought of the reason or reasons why your dear wife does not want you to speak to anyone? it could be that your friend knows something about her that you do not know.
I have seen men beat up their siblings because of their wives and it leaves me thinking of what a woman would say to her husband to make her fight his own brothers and sisters. Maybe I am not a real woman because I still cannot think of anything to say to hubby that will make him quarrel or fight with his siblings. Every woman has the gift of the “Bottom power” but mine has failed me a couple of times for obvious reasons, there is no bottom to hold the power, dassol!
A note to the women: any time you put your spouse in an awkward position with other people who also love him please think of your son, born or unborn and imagine a woman coming between the two of you or him and his other siblings.
Please let your husband be the man that God created him to be, and your main duty is to bring out the best in him. (There is a clause here) the man must be nice and very good natured.
Watchword "bring out the best in the people around you but just the man.
ReplyDeleteDo not turn them into wrappers both woman wrapper and man wrapper or any kind
Any woman, girlfriend or wife that delights in seeing you shout at your own mum, then you should take a second look at that woman. Saying that, lets be honest here, some mother in-laws can be very evil no doubt.
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