A Lilea’s blog reader shared his "Beat me outta love" story. Enyioma met Nneoma in school and they had what would be termed a “Holy” relationship.
Enyioma was already a business man while in school and was able to shower his girlfriend with everything that a young school girl could ever want.
Nneoma was the envy of other young girls; while they fought with their boyfriends over payment of bills in the school canteen, Nneoma dined in the best restaurant in town with her beau occasionally.
Enyioma was not like the average undergraduate, he was focused, he studied hard and worked hard to grow his business, and he also made out time to worship God.
He was well known in the school and in the church; he was every girl’s dream man. The elderly always wanted to hook him up with a good girl, to them, Enyioma was too good to fall into the hands of a bad woman.lol.
When his mates partied, he attended fellowships and other church programmes, he carefully stayed away from living a reckless life.
Enyioma still had a way of endearing himself to all, the bad boys wanted him as a friend, the ladies wanted to be close to him as well and some even tried without luck to seduce him. He had eyes only for Nneoma who had vowed to keep herself for him till he was ready to take her as his wife.
Enyioma and Neoma spent a lot of their free times in his well furnished apartment somewhere close to the University Campus; it took a lot of self discipline to stick to their promise to each other to wait till they became one, after a few failed attempts, they became like siblings and eating the forbidden fruit was no longer a priority for them.
Upon his graduation, Enyioma gave more time to his growing business, he could see where the business was going and he devoted all his time to making it work.
This affected his relationship with Nneoma who felt neglected by her boyfriend. She wanted Enyioma to call and visit her more; she wanted the assurance that he was still hers.
Nneoma started to doubt Enyioma’s commitment and even began to suspect that he met someone else and did not want her anymore. She forgot how upright Enyioma was and how he was dedicated only to her while he was in school, as hard as he tried to convince her that he wasn’t up to any pranks the more she doubted him.
She failed to understand that he needed to give his best to make his business succeed; he never planned to work for anyone, he was fighting for survival. Their relationship kept going downhill.
At some point, Nneoma decided to pay Enyioma a surprise visit, to Enyioma, it was a pleasant surprise, he was happy to see the love of his life but Nneoma had a different feeling; she was angry, she could not understand why he had not given her the kind of attention that she wanted just like he did while in school.
Their discussion suddenly turned into a heated argument, Enyioma could not understand why she was so angry, he was very gentle and nice to her, tried to make her laugh, spoke to her kindly but it was like she had made up her mind to be angry and she said things that insinuated she wanted him to hit her.
It looked like Enyioma was dealing with a stranger, he had never seen Nneoma act in that manner, she was rude and careless, he ignored everything she said to him but when she started to pull down and break his electronics, he lost it.
She broke his television, home theatre, decorder and other things within her reach.
Enyioma beat Nneoma blue black, he beat her so badly that she ended up in the hospital , he regretted his actions afterwards and this of course brought the relationship to an unfortunate end.
Years later, Enyioma was made to find and ask Neoma for forgiveness; he was made to believe that his happiness depended on a woman in his past that he beat up. It did not come easy but Nneoma eventually came round, she forgave Enyioma and both moved on. They are happily married now to different people and still keep in touch sometimes.
It appeared that Nneoma wanted to be beaten, she got that in full but did not get the fringe benefits of the “make up sex” (this Enyioma guy sef). How do you know what a woman wants and keep it away from her.
But seriously, hitting a woman even if she literally asked for it is a punishable crime in more advanced societies and Enyioma would have still been serving a jail term. It’s all good that Nneoma was gracious enough to forgive him and both are living very happily.
(Please note that the names in the story are fictitious for privacy sake)
Enyioma was already a business man while in school and was able to shower his girlfriend with everything that a young school girl could ever want.
Nneoma was the envy of other young girls; while they fought with their boyfriends over payment of bills in the school canteen, Nneoma dined in the best restaurant in town with her beau occasionally.
Enyioma was not like the average undergraduate, he was focused, he studied hard and worked hard to grow his business, and he also made out time to worship God.
He was well known in the school and in the church; he was every girl’s dream man. The elderly always wanted to hook him up with a good girl, to them, Enyioma was too good to fall into the hands of a bad woman.lol.
When his mates partied, he attended fellowships and other church programmes, he carefully stayed away from living a reckless life.
Enyioma still had a way of endearing himself to all, the bad boys wanted him as a friend, the ladies wanted to be close to him as well and some even tried without luck to seduce him. He had eyes only for Nneoma who had vowed to keep herself for him till he was ready to take her as his wife.
Enyioma and Neoma spent a lot of their free times in his well furnished apartment somewhere close to the University Campus; it took a lot of self discipline to stick to their promise to each other to wait till they became one, after a few failed attempts, they became like siblings and eating the forbidden fruit was no longer a priority for them.
This affected his relationship with Nneoma who felt neglected by her boyfriend. She wanted Enyioma to call and visit her more; she wanted the assurance that he was still hers.
Nneoma started to doubt Enyioma’s commitment and even began to suspect that he met someone else and did not want her anymore. She forgot how upright Enyioma was and how he was dedicated only to her while he was in school, as hard as he tried to convince her that he wasn’t up to any pranks the more she doubted him.
She failed to understand that he needed to give his best to make his business succeed; he never planned to work for anyone, he was fighting for survival. Their relationship kept going downhill.
At some point, Nneoma decided to pay Enyioma a surprise visit, to Enyioma, it was a pleasant surprise, he was happy to see the love of his life but Nneoma had a different feeling; she was angry, she could not understand why he had not given her the kind of attention that she wanted just like he did while in school.
Their discussion suddenly turned into a heated argument, Enyioma could not understand why she was so angry, he was very gentle and nice to her, tried to make her laugh, spoke to her kindly but it was like she had made up her mind to be angry and she said things that insinuated she wanted him to hit her.
It looked like Enyioma was dealing with a stranger, he had never seen Nneoma act in that manner, she was rude and careless, he ignored everything she said to him but when she started to pull down and break his electronics, he lost it.
She broke his television, home theatre, decorder and other things within her reach.
Enyioma beat Nneoma blue black, he beat her so badly that she ended up in the hospital , he regretted his actions afterwards and this of course brought the relationship to an unfortunate end.
Years later, Enyioma was made to find and ask Neoma for forgiveness; he was made to believe that his happiness depended on a woman in his past that he beat up. It did not come easy but Nneoma eventually came round, she forgave Enyioma and both moved on. They are happily married now to different people and still keep in touch sometimes.
It appeared that Nneoma wanted to be beaten, she got that in full but did not get the fringe benefits of the “make up sex” (this Enyioma guy sef). How do you know what a woman wants and keep it away from her.
But seriously, hitting a woman even if she literally asked for it is a punishable crime in more advanced societies and Enyioma would have still been serving a jail term. It’s all good that Nneoma was gracious enough to forgive him and both are living very happily.
(Please note that the names in the story are fictitious for privacy sake)
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ReplyDeleteThere are certain things that cannot take place when is frustrated or put under highest provocation, make up sex.
ReplyDeleteAmaks! Bestselling author! Claim your blessing nne. I see it happening soon!
ReplyDeleteThe Question still remains,what was Enyioma doing that got Nneoma upset? Enyioma's story is incomplete.must have been eating some apples from another forbidden tree.maybe..just maybe.
ReplyDeleteForgiveness sometimes feels like a "getaway jail-free card", something you don't deserve(well....most of the time we don't but God demands it).
ReplyDeleteSometimes when you choose not to "DO", it comes across like U must be getting some'n some'n from somewhere else, whereas its just discipline and grace that's keeping you in this age of decadence. Some people might not see it as normal but that's because they view things from the worldly and not God's perspective.
Beating a woman because of gadgets no make sense sha, thank God he regretted it (don't they all, Lol), I can form fainting or panic attack in a split second once I see za gesture stance to attack me don set. I too dey para biko!