Dear Lilea's blog,
She's everything I need in a woman, kind hearted, generous, prayerful, warm and very beautiful.
She gives extremely good sex and is adventurous in the bedroom. She's every man's fantasy but there's one problem.
She has mouth odour and we've been battling to cure it without luck. My friends and family make fun of me and I'm about to call off the engagement for this reason.
Am I making a mistake? I think that you are my brother
Everyone human has a flaw. Unfortunately hers is odor. So the question is, do u want to trade mouth odor for another flaw? I don't think that's a good enough reason unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, that's not an excuse. Simply advise the girl to constantly add lemon juice to her drinking water. This have really helped in curing halitosis over the years
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious you have perfect family and friends, I don't envy you bro, because you'd never get it right in their eyes, they are all flawless.
ReplyDeleteI had one friend that was dating one beautiful girl at one time, he said the one reason why he wdn't marry her was because she had the "H" factor ( meaning she pronounced "H" were she shdn't and omitted it where she shouldn't) you see she was Yoruba , he was Igbo, he couldn't handle it, It was shallow-minded of him but he didn't care and he didn't move forward to propose. He married someone else.
My problem here is that bro was aware of the mouth odor tey tey, yet he went ahead and got himself engaged....did u do it out of self pity or were u certain she was the one until she met your family?
I have no qualms with people breaking off engagements, better a broken engagement than a broken marriage, most broken marriages stem from selfishness. If his reason is based on his convinction that he doesn't want again and not from outside pressure then he should go ahead.
If he won't be able to protect and shield her from every attack on her flaw, if he as a husband won't be proud of her in public, if he starts to develop a complex infront of people because of that, if his insecurity will get the better of him, please onye brother, don't marry her, because you'll always feel you married her because she was a nice person (you didnt want to make her feel bad as a nice guy)and not because you feel in your heart that God made her just for you and put comma..(mouth odor) for you. I'm surprised to hear that halitosis is that unmanageable thou.
I'm wondering what he would say to her his reason is for the breakup, he can always use the famous line. "Baby, it's not you, it's me." You gat that right bro.
....and here ends my epistle!
Something's wrong with this guy!!!
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