Why are some people so deceptive? So this young lady, Lulu (not real name) gave up on love ages ago; at the young age of thirty four, she had suffered her own fair share of heartbreaks and just when she had gotten comfortable with being single, along came Mr. Liar (Just in case anybody bears this name, please note that it is fictitious).
He was the perfect guy, loved her well, always there for her and most importantly, spoilt her silly with material things (lol). He made her believe that he had no time for social media and so discouraged her from trying to be friends with him or follow him on any of the social media platforms.
She respected and believed him; deep in her heart though, she had an uneasy feeling that Mr. Liar was too good to be true and there was more to him. The doubts she had, her boyfriend was able to douse when he approached her mother at a family function and made his intention to get married to Lulu known to her family. This move sort of rekindled the sparks between the couple.
Evil lasts but for a while and this was the case in the story; Lulu was randomly tagged to a picture on a social networking site which led to the discovery; posing freely and happily in most of the pictures were Mr. Liar and a woman with a toddler.
It turns out Mr. Liar is a happily married man, fully married in every way; traditional, court and church wedding and any other type of wedding that exists.
Lulu felt her whole life crash before her yet again; she was fooled again but how? She had access to his home and he never stopped her from visiting him. She saw him whenever she wanted to, they were together most of the time and she knew where he was at any time.
This deceptive man had a second home which he gave her access to and that made it difficult for her to see all the signs. As soon as she confronted him, he blocked all communication channels with her and would not take her calls anymore. What an idiot this guy is and please don’t tell me to listen to both sides, the story is very straight forward, he lied to her that he was single and that is enough crime.
Lulu is still trying to recover from the shock and going through counselling. I ask again, why are some men so damn mean, stupid and big cowards?
Males, females..people lie and some people can lie for a whole continent but I think the guys take the lead by a Km and a half, Lol! Naturally the female has an intuition to catch a guy when he is lying, When a girl is in love, she's completely blindsided many times. You can't blame her!
ReplyDeleteThere's a similar story I heard several years ago about a man who had two homes, the first wife was Caucasian and she had three sons. It was at the man's burial that she found out the man had another family, four sons...the four sons were in between the ages of the first three..I.e. First creole son is 25, first black son is 24 and so on. The two families were staying in the same state, the in-laws knew except the oyibo wifey. #Thatmoment you want to rain curses on dead body with no apologies.
Sadly, Mr. Lair is going to make life very unpleasant for the right guy when he comes into Lulu's life,over suspicion and paranoia will drive him away.
I feel for her but she should just try to get over it and live her life to the fullest, let go of the pain and let God do the miraculous!
There are THREE sides to any story.... One told by one party... The other by the second party... And the TRUTH.... Most of the time.... A VERY UGLY TRUTH!!!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree.
ReplyDeleteThere are Mr Liar & Mrs Liar in this world, unfortunately. As guarded as lulu was, she did not do her research well before falling for him but let her be grateful that it was just a broken heart since people lose all or even their lives to such Mr Liar/Mrs Liars of this world. Ndo Nne !!!
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