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Dalu met Chino when she was going through a very difficult period; she had lost a huge sum of money in a business that went bad. This had happened when she needed all the money that she could get and so it was a very difficult phase for her.
Chino provided the much needed comfort. Dalu had just taken up a single status and could do with the strong arms of a man to live through the lonely moments especially the cold nights, it was the rainy season and Dalu couldn’t be more grateful to the gods for sending Chino her way.
They were getting jiggy with it and it was all that she had hoped it would be and even more. Chino had a degree, a Masters and a PhD in bedmatics; and Dalu was very okay with the way he made her feel.
He helped her through the difficult moments; back and forth the police stations and the lawyer’s office. He was also there when the negotiations happened and at the end of every tough day, he had a way of making her forget the stress of the day; he had her tranquiliser and she couldn’t ask for me.
It’s been over nine months into this affair and Dalu wants out, she has had enough and does not deny the fact that Chino met a need that had ceased to be a need for her. The problem now is that Chino feels used and will not let it all come to an end just like that.
He says that he was used by Dalu and it would be hard to accept; he insists that they must sort things out between them and possibly continue with the relationship. Dalu insists that she is done and will never have any dealings with Chino anymore.
I never knew that women could be said to use men, hahahahaha. In Dalu’s words, “I used him when I had a need; I have crossed that road and have moved on”
Chino, please get a grip on yourself. Accept Dalu’s decision to move on while you also move on. Women hear worse things from men all the time and they still stand tall (some anyway).
I wish both parties all the best.
PS: the names are fictitious and some parts modified for privacy sake