It was an Error

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Another TGIF and the story is just sad. 

Goli (not real name) is a mature single man (MSM). He has struggled a lot with keeping a relationship and it bothered him that he will never be able to love a woman. 

All his relationships ended with the ladies involved feeling very sad and broken. It's usually exciting for him in the beginning but he gets bored after a while in the relationship. 

He begins to withdraw and somehow the lady reads the handwriting on the wall and leaves,  often heartbroken. 

Goli is very easy going and knows how to treat a  lady.  He's the type that takes his lady for a massage every other week, sits with you at the salon, takes you to the hospital at the slightest illness, rubs your hand through it all, cooks for his woman, picks your dirty laundry and takes them to the cleaners. Romantic dinner dates, shopping sprees and all. 

I'm not surprised that one of his ex girlfriends was hospitalised for two weeks after their relationship went south. Another one visited his parents every day for a week asking them to make him take her back. 

His only known flaw is that he is a snob, he would never be friends with his girlfriend's friends or family but he more than makes up for this in the sacred room. James Bond has got nothing on him.

Goli is in high spirits lately and he says that this is the longest he's been happy in a relationship.  He has successfully dated a lady secretly for exactly one year today and he is ready to propose soon. 

Here lies the problem, his Miss Right is very married!  Yes,  you read it right, very married with four children. 

They met in the classroom where both were attending a training.  They were in the same hotel for one week, it was her first time of being intimate with another man apart from her husband her whole life. 

One year after, they are still loving each other. Goli says he will be devastated if she says no because he knows she loves him more but may find it difficult to walk away from her marriage because of her children. 

He wants her and all the baggage that she may carry. 

My take on this is simple,  Goli Goli Goli!  I know how it feels to be in love but some things are not meant to be. This right here is not meant to be. The relationship was an error in the first place. 

Find your own woman and leave this one, she's taken. Please do not propose to her, do not destroy her home and do not destroy yourself. Some people may not agree with me but this is my opinion.