Terrific Tuesday

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It's amazing how nice human beings can be. After my post yesterday, I  lost count of the number of people who reached out to me via phone call,  email and whatsapp to wish me well.  It made me realise that man was created to be good. 

So how and when did it all go wrong? Man's inhumanity to man; what causes it? 

I'm not just referring to the horrible killings all over the country but also to the indecent ways people treat each other in relationships. 

Yesterday, I read on another platform of a man who left his live-in lover at home to go get married to another woman. 

The story goes that the man left home like he was going to work but goes to get married instead.  

The lady's friend saw the picture online and told her friend who quickly rushed home only to discover that the stranger had packed all his belongings. She never heard from him and so never got answers. Anyone who treats you this way is surely a stranger. 

My questions are a lot,  why would a man lead a woman on?  Why the dishonesty? And why the callousness?  This must have been very heartbreaking for the lady and could make one very irrational. 

The other story is of the lady that proposed to a guy openly and he rejected her proposal.  It was reported that he bent over while she knelt down there on one knee and whispered in her ear that he was already married. What a perfect time to reveal that important piece of information. 

Where did Nigerian ladies even learn to propose to men? In my opinion, its  not our culture, it doesn't sit well and definitely not romantic. 

When in a relationship,  it is important to be open and if the feelings at any point change just let the other party know. 

Carrying on like everything is fine is not just right. There's no gain in playing with someone's emotions and peace of mind.  

You date a girl so well that she decides to do the extraordinary and propose to you then you give her your good news. Well done sir! 

I will never encourage a woman to propose to a guy. Mbanu! And publicly too? No way! If you'll ever do such a thing please do it privately so you take your shame alone in this case.

Don't move in with a guy that you are not married to, there will be nothing more to discover if you eventually get married. More so, it's not right if you are a Christian, not sure what the Quran says about it. 

By the way, I'm a lot better today,  rested a lot during the day hence my late post.  I've been trying to post early for about two weeks now. Hope I can stick to it. I'm sure it was a terrific Tuesday for everyone?