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Bina’s story to Bede’s
story. After her first child she was no
longer sexually attracted to her husband Tito. She said she never knew the day
would come when she would reject her darling husband’s sexual advances. If they
had something going for them in their marriage, it was sexual compatibility. They
did it everywhere, in the car, kitchen, bathroom sitting room and even out in
the open within their compound; they could never get enough of each other.
It was a big hormonal shock for
her six months after the birth of her first child when her husband tried to touch
her, she felt her body cringe and she had goose bumps all over. Although she
put it off as having to do with the changes in her hormone and her body, she
was still terrified because she did not see it coming.
It was then that she realised she
never missed her husband in those six months of trying to heal from childbirth.
She could not understand how she
went from demanding for some digging every day to being scared of it. During pregnancy
she never let Tito rest, her libido was at its peak and she could go for it
three times in a day. She was like a wild animal and once cried all day because Tito
would not leave his office to come home and water her garden.
She was so hurt but could not be
angry with her husband for too long; as soon as he got home that evening, she
jumped on him with tears in her eyes and could only sleep after she had her right dose of
him.
Not wanting to be touched by her
husband was something she could not comprehend; she loved him dearly and was
just as miserable as he was whenever he tried to turn her on without luck. He tried
everything and even resorted to buying porn to watch with his wife just to see
if there would be a turn around.
Bina’s husband learnt new styles
and began to do things that she had never seen him do, she felt worse and was
even resentful of him for trying too much. The closest thing to working was the
almighty KY but they both knew that she still never enjoyed it.
Bina learnt to take pain killers
just to act like she was ill and had a headache; gradually Tito began to
give up trying which made Bina very happy.
Bina attended her friend’s
thanksgiving service in another church and sat beside Koli, they got talking
when Koli asked to hold her baby as she struggled to make her baby’s food. when
the service was over they exchanged numbers.
Koli called her the next and from
telling her that she looked too young to have a baby they got into very
intimate discussions about themselves and by the time the call was over, Bina
was dripping like a wet piece of cloth. They actually got off the phone when
she heard the sound of Tito’s car.
That night she opened her garden to her
husband for cultivation but while she shut her eyes she imagined that it was Koli doing the
grinding instead. It was easy to talk to Koli so she shared her story with him
(big mistake). From that day, Koli called her everyday and talked dirty to her
till Tito got home. She often reached climax while speaking to him on the phone
and always continued with Tito physically what she could only do with Koli over
the phone.
Tito was so happy to have his
wife back because their sex life gradually started to pick up. Bina and Koli
met again afterwards and it was Koli who stopped Bina from going all the way
with him. she was ready to because she yearned to swim so badly with her whole
heart without imagining that it was someone else.
Koli is much older than Bina and promised
to keep helping her marriage, he calls when Bina’s husband is almost home and
sets the mood right for some pump and grind. Tito recently bought a special
gift for his wife to appreciate her for trying her best to revive their weak sex
life. (if only he knows).
Bina says that flirting with Koli
has saved her marriage and also prevented her from slipping into a depression.
Me: I do not judge Bina because
this is the story of a lot of other women however, it is morally and
spiritually wrong. Every problem is wrought by prayers.
🙄
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