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| Late Symphorosa Photo credit: the bellng.com |
Someone asked my opinion on the lawyer who murdered her husband in cold blood. Simply put, the lady is a monster. I'm not all for she's innocent until proven guilty; she's very guilty of the crime and deserves whatever comes her way.
Reading the report released by the police I got very upset. She suspected him of cheating and then all hell let loose. Cheating, ordinary cheating?
When he wouldn't dignify her with a response, and instead called her mother and his sister to complain she went on to batter the vulnerable man.
I say vulnerable because I do not understand why a grown man will call his mother and sister instead to complain about his violent wife. Why couldn't he just deal with the situation?
"Mummy she's beating me oh" or what, how exactly did the conversation go? How does an able bodied man let his wife hit him with a cooking pan and get away with it?
It just doesn't sound right. This is confirmation that men are also victims of domestic violence.
Was he under a spell or the influence of alcohol or drugs? What was he exactly doing while she hit him with a cooking pan?
I assume he passed out and then the demon of a woman went ahead to mutilate his body; she ripped his intestines out of his stomach and did not stop there, she cut off his 'odogwu' and put in his hand like she was saying 'take it and keep it in one place for once'
In my opinion, the late lawyer was indeed very weak at that point in his life for whatever reason and the murderer of a wife knew it. Why did he make no attempt at defending himself?
I'm all for a man being a gentleman and all the brouhaha against hitting a woman but not when the woman is badly behaved.
In this case he would have beaten the woman blue black because I do not believe that the woman would have been stronger than him.
Or he could taken a drive faraway from home even though I prefer the first advice.
Some women are hard hearted and should not be treated with any decency likewise some men who should not be treated with respect by a woman.
Respect they say is reciprocal and honour should only be given to whom honour is due.
The level of jealousy that will make a woman kill is the madness level. It comes down to the fact that mental illness is real in Nigeria yet no one pays attention.
Humanly speaking, I honestly do not think that the woman deserves mercy. She should be made to pay for the crime she committed.
As for late Symphrosa, if he has a son I hope he is a much stronger man than his father literally speaking. May God rest the late lawyer's soul and may his wife find the forgiveness that can only come from God.
By the way, the name Symphrosa is such a sweet name
I pity the poor children of this accidental marriage whose life would have been dealt a great blow by this unfortunate incident. No one should blame the boy if he find it difficult to trust any woman
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, some marriages are products of what the couple made it. Some husbands understand the kind of wife they are married to likewise some wives unfortunately they tend to encourage foolishness instead of tackling it. Calling it love. I have seen
ReplyDeleteBoyfriend beating girlfriend blue black yet the lady will still run back to such boy the following day.
The news was indeed an "indignation " both in the physical and spiritual world. The Man remains the Head of the Woman in a Marriage relationship whether he has cheated or not. By carrying out the last action of mutilating his manhood proved to the world that this particular woman never regarded the "authority" of any man. Based on the "premeditation" and "intent" of her spirit she spat at the authority of every man living in this world, whether black,white, African,Asian, European or whatsoever that represents "Man". She has not only murdered a man but has also committed an "abomination" which would take only the Mercy in the Blood of Jesus to remove. Even if judgement of Man fails to deal with her, that "demon" would torment her the rest of her life. However, the deceased could have "escaped" but may be he "allowed" after making sure that he had alerted all and sundry. There is no sin that cannot be forgiven by the Mercy of God. "Forgive and you be forgive, don't forgive and you won't be forgiven". She is bearing a very gracious burden put on her by Satan. She is to be most pitied!
ReplyDeleteSorry I meant "grevious" burden, not "gracious". This autocomplete nuisance of smartphone.
DeleteAlso, the Bible allows a Woman or Man to divorce his or her spouse in case of infidelity. And she could have pursued that option.
ReplyDeleteDead men they say don't tell tales. No one except those two know what went on in their marriage. Nonetheless murder can never be the answer to any issues. It's clear the lady is or was insane when she committed the crime. Too gruesome to be on a wimp. May God rest Symphrosas soul.
ReplyDeleteThis soul will only rest in peace after justice has been done. The case is a matter of keen interest in Lagos, Nigeria and the entire world. This man was murdered three times. Kiĺled in his head, his stomach and killed in his genitals. This case poses a threat to all married men, families and society. There would be "pro bono" lawyers who must wade into this "urgent" matter!
DeleteYou needed to have met Sym to know what a cool guy he was. Having known him professionally years back, I feel this kind of death was a bit too cruel for him.
ReplyDeleteAlthough there is no such thing as "gentle", "cool" guy or whatsoever it is called. A Man is a Man. He somewhat by error of omission inadvertently allowed this to happen to himself. He was at the weakest moment of his life and the Woman took advantage of that to destroy him. He was not just killed. He was destroyed. We are watching the judges and lawyers closely.
DeleteI learnt the woman didn’t have any child. She’s indeed �� but the man made it so because he would have tamed her madness. Continue to Rest In Peace
ReplyDeleteThe souls of men don't just rest in peace after Death. There are "stubborn " souls that hover around and "wait" a long time on the earth seeking recompense. Until that recompense is done, they just refuse to go away. They cry "Justice, Justice, must be done!". Only after that justice is done, then they depart. This man's soul seems very much around pleading for justice.
ReplyDeleteIt’s just a pity he died because he cheated. The marriage vow says for better for worse, I do not see where it says we cannot forgive a spouse who has cheated. I feel sad that this woman due to the demons inside her that she allowed to rule her had to kill the one she took vows with at the altar before God. May the soul of the departed Rest In Peace and May God forgive her and the soul of the dead husband who cheated on her.
ReplyDeleteTo a lot of people he could not hurt a fly very few knew of his dark side he was a serial wife beater. He was by no way a weak man over 6 ft tall and well built please I knew the concerned he was not the kind of man to beaten up by a woman
ReplyDeleteYou do know he had an earlier marriage, and he used to beat the woman
Hmmmm...Ogieva. So what you tend to tell us is that his wife probably acted in self defence. From her own confession she did not mention anything of such.I know for sure there is no such thing as "gentle" man. I am curious of this woman's kind of mind and heart because the way she butchered him reveals a trait of someone who has murdered in the past and successfully got away with the act. Think my dear, think. Try and meditate from your own mind and heart then you will get the signal.
DeleteMy own annoyance in this whole thing is that the murderous wife is not even a first wife. Imagine a side chic fighting because of another side chic.....nonsense!
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