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It's trending both locally and internationally that Chris Brown raped a girl in his hotel room in France.

I have a big problem with this allegation for some reasons. 

When a girl accepts to visit an able bodied man in his hotel room, she's not exactly going there for evangelism.

I'm not in any way saying that a lady may not go to a hotel to see a friend but it's always advisable to keep off the room if you are not in a "body is sweeting me" kind of mood.

The hotel is such a romantic place and I can imagine the type of hotel Chris Brown will be lodged in and in a romantic city like Paris. The hotel will definitely be  an expensive one, beautiful and with every perk of a five star hotel.

The hotel environment lifts up the spirit and is able to put one in a very kinky mood. I highly recommend it for those who have lost the spark in their marital lives.

Chris Brown is good looking, rich, bubbly, young and has the sex appeal. His life is about music, women, drugs and alcohol maybe and a lot of sex. I know these things because that is how these artistes who do not know God live.

So if a lady gets dressed and I'm sure sexily to go and visit a guy  like Chris Brown, what exactly was she thinking of? 

Or did she suddenly change her mind? She should have known that sex would happen one way or the other. 

If a lady is visiting a man in a hotel please keep it simple and just stay in an open area like the poolside, the restaurant or the bar. When you follow him to his room you have accepted his invitation to treat.

The allegation even came a week later.....nonsense.

Some may not like my opinion on this but I ask that you take the time to think it through. 

Now if you are a mother and your daughter comes to ask your permission to go visit a guy in a hotel; what will your response be? 

If your response is no, why? If yes, have you answered honestly?

Our girls need to understand that they need to stay out of harm's way at all times. Going to Chris Brown's hotel room was definitely being  harm's way. 

Now Chris Brown is suing for defamation and I really do not blame him. We should  separate desperation for quick money from genuine crimes. Or what do you think?


10 Comments

  1. I think the lady went to see a gospel artists for praise and worship. My own take is that nothing wrong happened to her save that she wanted more and couldn't get it then she decided to run him down and gain cheap popularity. Like rightly said, she knew what to expect when she decided to go visit him where and when she did. Besides, she must be a runsgirl arranged for Bro. Chris and she ought to have been paid her service charge. Thank God it didn't happen in Naija, she would have been looking for her pants now and not even remember rape. wakawaka. Thanks Amaks

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  2. You make me laugh. Hotel, hotel, hotel. I don't even like hotels for meetings.

    She had an agenda but it didn't work so she's using plan b.

    Let her come and try it in naija, nobody will even listen to her. Crazy girls who like to eat their cake and have it.

    Even if a man invites you to his house and you go, it's for sex. Don't go if you know you don't want him to have it.

    Even when a girl invites a man to her house, it's for sex. What else or is he a plumber or a bricklayer...

    We should let our girls know all these details. Or you both go for swimming or picnic...abeg

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  3. Lol
    I think Rape is a sensitive subject there are no lines it is usually his word against her word, there is usually 3 versions his, hers and the truth. Who can blame them afterall they all had different views. Some say “there is no such word as rape, because a girl with her skirts up, can run faster than the guy with his pants down” but the reality is that rape occurs sadly so, but most rapist walk free, most of them are people we trust and sometimes run to for protection. Only an animal would force himself on a woman , sex is a pleasurable art, it is about exploring pleasure spots and exploiting these to their limits . While some people blame the girl for dressing provocatively it is still not a reason “if she says no it means No” stop
    Unfortunately disgruntled sexual partners often shut rape whenever things don’t go as planned after sex but like we all know there are 3 sides to the matter his story her story and what they were doing at the spot together ...

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  4. If rape becomes inevitable why not kuku open the legs and enjoy it. Rapists are animals in decent clothes.. They have the craving like cocaine to perform that animalistic act which looks like a great deal of ART work.. Ndiala yi akwa akahali.Thanks Amaka

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  5. Hmmm. The young girl is funny. She lacks morality and fear of God.
    It is very unfortunate but all she needs now is to turn a new leave and stop blackmailing.

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  6. Reminds me of the Mike Tyson case, exactly the same scenario. Chris Brown is lucky this happened in France not in the US otherwise He Would still be in jail.

    My young Nephew has just started school in the US and I have given him several rules.

    1. Remember you are in the USA and not Naija.
    2. DO NOT allow any girl (and these days this could even be a boy) to be alone with you in your hostel room for WHATEVER REASON, not even to study
    3. DO NOT pay any compliments to any female, young or old, about het looks, that could be termed 'sexual harassment'
    4. If you must have a romantic relationship with anyone, you must get that person to sign a consensual agreement. (We agreed on a draft)

    Some may think these rule to he a bit extreme, but I have seen too many young men fall prey to such accusations and have suffered grave turmoil.

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  7. Amaka, the world is no longer like that. Chris brown was stupid and reckless and may go to jail for that. Even if she came naked to his room and started hissing him and suddenly says no or stop and he does not it’s rape. The standard of care required of musicians and other celebrities is even higher. More so for lack people. He is such an idiot. What footballers do now is that they make the girl tell them at reception that she is going up for consensual sex. Some get it in writing. It’s a mad world out there. A woman can withdraw her consent at any time. Because she consented to round one does not make round two automatic.

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  8. I quite agree with you but then,Amy, when a girl says no in the middle of the act, the guy should respect that and let go no matter how difficult it was. Chris Brown should tell us the true version of the story. I wish that girls should also understand that hotels are ok for meeting but not hotel rooms. Action do occur. Body no be firewood

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  9. I think the lady is seeking for unnecessary attention, first of,she went to meet him at the hotel,what was she expecting?? Obviously sex would definitely be involved, and dressing sexy is a Clear evidence that she had a motive to having sex with him,so in this case,Chris brown is really not at fault,it's an insult to him,cause most girls will even beg him for it without getting paid,so the girl is stupid for exposing herself this way,she just needs attention.

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  10. I think she just want to create unnecessary attention, first of,she went to see him at the hotel,what was she expecting? Obviously sex would definitely be involved, then she dressed sexy,what was her reason for dressing sexy,she wanted sex!!!,this is an insult to Chris,cause girls would even beg him for sex and might not collect money,so she coming up with the rape story is false,basically she wanted more,and he couldn't offer,so she just had to come up with rape,girls!!!! Lol

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