Hit the Floor

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There have been recurring cases of women beating their husbands' lovers. I've seen at least two very graphic videos of women dehumanizing their fellow women with the husbands nowhere in the picture.

Women shame themselves very easily and I don't see the men doing the same to their fellow men. Well I must say that theirs is even more dangerous. They put an end to it once and for all,  fatally.

In one of the videos, the side chic was the woman's best friend which infuriated the woman so much and as she brutalized her best friend she wept. 

You could tell that she was deeply hurt by the action of her friend. 

Stripping a human being is the most degrading punitive measure anyone can think of especially in the case of a woman.

A naked man just has one place to cover and he's good, once he cups his hotdog depending on the size of the hotdog then he's good. For the woman she has just two hands and there are three places to cover so what does she do?

I'm not sure how best to deal with a side chic but definitely not stripping or beating her. If I have an opportunity, I'll tell her to please stop seeing my husband but I'll definitely not make a show of it except she tries to act funny.

A certain lady confronted her husband's side chick and the side chic wasn't a regular side chic. She challenged the wife to do her worst and asked her to swear if she never dated a married man.

Of course her outburst earned her several hot slaps from the wife which eventually led to a big fight in her home.

It further confirmed that the side chic was no ordinary side chic; she was on ground and before wifey got home hubby was waiting angrily to retaliate for his dear side chikito.

This should have been a good ground for a permanent separation but the couple still live together happily till date.

The confrontation between the two women happened on the road and the main culprit the man  was nowhere in the picture while the two women disgraced each other.

The woman who beat up her best friend mercilessly could have easily killed her. Is there any man who is worth committing murder for? Let alone an adulterous one. Did the woman rape him? It takes two to play or was he under a spell?

In the second video, the lady started with a belt, she flogged the young  lady who she lured to an apartment and then stripped her. She beat her and even sat on her face in a very vulgar manner. (get a room madam)

Is it love or wickedness that drives a woman into such a rage? Or ego? I personally do not think that it is love. Love is gentle and kind and even in the face of evil it does not seek to return evil or to destroy.

It is more of 'What does she have that I do not have?' You hear things like 'how dare you?' Forgetting that she dared because the husband dared too. 

I'll rather face the husband than the side chic except she calls my bluff and rubs it on my face. Then I'll have a reason to deal with her. The guilty party will surely lose the fight.

Facing my husband does not mean I'll kill him like in Symphorosa's case. There are many ways to deal with a philandering husband.

In the two videos, the side chics were handicapped by guilt and so succumbed to whatever treatment that they received without fighting back.

Those are side chics who still have conscience. 

If those two wives had encountered ordained fornicators; those who wine, dine and dwell in fornication it would have been a different story.  

Those ones fight back with everything in them and it becomes brutal. There's really no need to get physical.

The best type of fight is the one done quietly on the knees by your altar in silent supplication to the Almighty God, reporting His son to him.

This works like magic and  restores men even those whose souls have been sold to the devil.

Please note that this prayer starts as soon as marriage happens and not start after there's a problem.

To all those  battling infidelity in their marriages right now,  please hit the floor on your knees and see God in action. One of the results encountered by one of my mentees was that the hot dog would just pass out on seeing the strange shawarma. And no type of job whether blow or bite would resuscitate odogwu.

When hubby realised that it was a supernatural intervention he had no choice than to face his home and ask wifey for mercy. At that time he had ignored wifey for nine months while he had the time of his life with the side chic.

He confessed that for three months he had not been able to get it up with the strange woman. That night she held her husband's hands they prayed together and she forgave him.

She said that she had just hugged him and tortilla responded with a nod to the delight of hubby. He began to act like a virgin boy. 

He looked at his resurrected hot dog, admired it for a few minutes and thereafter pounced on her like he had just been released from prison.

She had to run when he kept asking for more. Hubby is a very good Christian now and their marriage is at its best today.

It must not always end well and I really hope that more ladies will learn to walk away from infidelity if they cannot cope.

All I'm saying is this; ladies please deal with the issues without the shaming