Marriage is deep and no two marriages are the same they say, and as much as I believe this with all my heart, most marriages are similar. The reason I say this is that men are kindred in a strange sort of way. When ladies share their experiences with their husbands, we always almost have had the same experiences in our homes. Once in a while, however, one comes across a story that is unique in every way that leaves you in shock and with mixed emotions of amazement, anger, and confusion.
Aisha's husband is way more adventurous than Aisha in the bedroom and wants to try everything humanly possible. Poor Aisha tries to keep up with his demands and goes above and beyond to satisfy her husband's sexual needs the best that she can. She would do anything like any good wife would to ensure that her husband had no complaints but this was till Ayo started to ask for what she had always said that she would never do.
Aisha put her foot down against anal sex; she would not engage in it, period, and no matter how much Ayo begged or tried to bribe her she wouldn't budge. That back hole is meant for one thing alone, poop and that was the only thing she would use it for. She was a bit disappointed that after all her carefully learned skills, Ayo wanted more; Aisha could fold herself, roll, bend, hang and spread in different ways just to give Ayo a new experience each time they are intimate.
Ayo wouldn't relent and even offered to reward Aisha with One Million Naira each time she ever let him do it anally. The offer was quite tempting and so one night, Aisha tried, but no sooner had her husband tried to gain entry than she started purging, it was a whole mess and she was all the more convinced that it was an unnatural process. Ayo tried to assure her that it was a gradual process that she would start to enjoy with time which aggravated Aisha the more, so he stopped trying.
Aisha confided in Koli and Onyee about her husband's crazy fetish and how she believed that he must have cheated with someone who introduced him to it. she also told them that he wanted it so badly that he even offered her some money. Her two closest friends advised her to stick to her guns and she did exactly that.
Aisha, Koli, and Onyee had been friends from University and were always there for each other, the three friends encouraged themselves and settled their differences if any occurred. Koli even offered to speak to Ayo after she saw how distressed Aisha was. This approach yielded a good result because Ayo apologized to Aisha and never bothered her again.
Aisha was grateful to Koli for saving her marriage and applauded her wisdom. Everything returned to normal and life was good until Aisha got a distress call from Koli one evening. Koli told her to stay away from Onyee because she no longer trusted her. Koli confided in Aisha that Onyee was overly friendly with her husband and she was no longer comfortable with it and she asked Aisha to be more vigilant and to prevent Onyee from coming close to her family because she could also be targeting her own husband. She also asked her not to say anything to Onyee but tactfully keep her away.
Aisha took it upon herself to settle the misunderstanding between her two best friends instead of doing what Koli asked her to do and so, she decided to arrange a meeting with her two friends without both parties knowing that the other would be there. The meeting was at a lounge in the afternoon when there were not a lot of people.
Aisha started to apologize to both for not telling them that she had invited both of them but before she could finish, Koli called Onyee a slut and Onyee replied by calling her a bigger slut. Both ladies started to exchange words, calling each other unprintable names which threw Aisha off balance; she had never seen her friends act that way, she did not even know that they knew such words and she was bewildered. Onyee was the one who asked Aisha if she really wanted to know what was going on and before Aisha could say anything, she went on to ask her if she knew why her husband no longer disturbed her about anal sex, "Koli here has been filling that gap" Aisha felt blood rush to her brain when she heard that and almost passed out when Koli said to Onyee, "and you felt you could do better? Witch".
Aisha picked up her bag and left immediately, all along, she had been dining with two devils. So Koli resolved the situation in Aisha's home by offering Aisha's husband what his wife couldn't give him for less than what he had offered his wife. She confided in Onyee about it and how she was no longer in debt because Ayo paid her a lot of money each time which was very often. Onyee then approached Ayo for a piece of the action and Koli found out because Ayo reduced their time together and she also noticed that Onyee was spending money in an unusual manner.
Koli confronted Onyee and they had a very big quarrel, (over another person's husband?) I have heard a lot of weird stories but this particular one gives me goosebumps. This story is real but all the names have been changed for privacy's sake.
Aisha has left but Ayo wants her back. I have always said that I will not leave my husband because he cheated, but this situation right here will send me running as fast as my legs can carry me.
Is this a forgivable Crime?
Uwa ojoo na ndu aliili!
ReplyDeleteMen and their creepy cravings and women and their unending struggles to qualify as a good wife.
Nothing is unforgivable though I will never subscribe to this unnatural sexual offense.
Why was the man desiring anal sex more than vaginal sex? Could it be that he's bisexual?
Mmmmmh okwu erika.
Aisha has started condoning this violation, a little help from her frenemies shouldn't be too much to condone alongside.
Tufiakwa
ReplyDeleteSpeechless hmmmm
ReplyDeleteHian!!! Me ma, I will leave myself, if I heard I did this LMAO (no pun intended 😅). Let me try to focus on the case here.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know where to start from? Who are we forgiving? "Oga pass backyard" or awa Aunties?
People have different fetishes and I won't judge anyone for desiring to do anything, but that man going on to "deal" with both friends, na confam gangster and it think that was too low!
Even if he was bisexual, and for whatever reason felt like his life depended on "back entry", he could have carried out such acts with someone else and not his wife's friends. That's extremely low, disrespectful and dangerous. What else would he be willing to do for this fetish, and with who?
Well, those girls are not Aisha's friends o and another lesson there is, it's not everyone that deserves to know our challenges. They could have encouraged her to allow "back entry" but they refused, manipulating her to their advantage, by discouraging her from trying any further because of the money involved... Indeed we live in strange world LMAO
My opinion, I don't think she should forgive him. If he needed it so badly, could pay and go as far as doing it with not one but both her friends, abeg that's beyond normal!
Dude needs help!!!
Crazy things are happening
ReplyDeleteFinally, this act of sex is overrated.
ReplyDeleteBible teaches that the man must not deny the wife sex neither shall the woman deny the husband sex but all things must be in moderation. Temperance is a central theme of most religions.
The way people go about this sex issue, I am not trying to judge but it's ruining alot of things. Seems like there's a spiritual force pushing some people to be uncontrollable about it. Well, I am not married and not in relationship. So, i may not understand how it itches.
ReplyDeleteAisha should forgive her husband with the condition that they both need a shrink and a consellor for a while. Then prayers as well.
She should let go of those her friends.
Otito diri Jesu
ReplyDeleteI guess too much porn watching has taken a negative toll on dis guy, cuz no other explanation fits. Or will we say he's into Yahoo tinz? Just d way we see its rampant dese days.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, as regards 4gvness, if truly it were on the part of the wife(Aisha) to d husband or her friends, if dey are truly sorry and repentant, why not? No mata how grievous the sin, its very important to note that our holy books speaks forgiveness, no be so?
And on the husband's own part, maybe he should tell us truly why anal sex is smtin he's paying heavily for at close qtrs. Lol.
Things dey happen ooo.
And for Aisha's friends... Money no go kill dem ooo. Only God know where Ayo don carry deir destiny enter....cuz its obvious say tinz no normal.
Waw.... Just waw....
ReplyDeleteForgiving? Mmmh.... Well, that is doable.... For your own sake but the question is what happens after forgiving. Would or should she let them come close to her again? For the friends, forgive and forget them.
For her husband, a chord has been broken ooo... But there are lots of considerations to make. Are they married with children? Has he changed? Is he a serial adulterer? Is he clean medically? No yamayama diseases... Does she still love him? Was he good to her?
If the latter should be the case, she can move back.... They can be live- in tenants until she is sure that she is safe and he has repented absolutely.
Ife erika n'ụwa nke a oo!
ReplyDeleteAisha forgive him o and your 'friends' so you can be free (from) yourself...but return as his wife and/their friend? Hmmm...that's a different matter altogether! Ọ dikwa ezigbo risky!
This one choke.
ReplyDeleteDinning with frenemies
Honestly I am lost for words. But leaving this silly man isn't really the way out after all her sacrifices.
I suggest she goes for therapy then state conditions suitable to her mental health and pocket then return home.